I'm worried for her too. He's been to jail twice for beating people up. We already know he has an anger problem. We were in a theme park and two teenage boys aparently "tried to spit on him" when they boys were riding a trolley and this guy CHASED after them cursing and what not. Psycho.... I'm thinking he could be abusive towards women and that's why he's had two wives already.
I just want to choke her right now because she keep bringing up this guy! I had to see her in person the other day when she came to look at the house we're buying. I was glad she didn't say anything then, but afterward I guess she told my SO that her fiance could do some work on our house NO THANKS.....I'd rather do it myself. I don't feel safe around him and I most definitely don't want him in my house.
We're starting to worry that she is going to move him up here now.....
Something else that is a bit odd. He claims to be this hard worker and says he works at least 10-12 hours every day. He says he's a dredger down in Texas, and sometimes he works all day without sleep. So the odd part, my MIL is ALWAYS on the phone with him. My SO can hardly ever get a hold of her any time of day. And he's not tan at all, lives in Texas and works that many hours outside and isn't tan? The sun is only down for so long each day I guess the drug abuse would explain how he can stay up for days at a time without sleep
Oh and he also claims to be a Native American and has gone through spirit quests and what not. Again....he's not tan at all and works in the sun and is Native American? I'm more tan than he is and I'm almost transparent! And I'm not exaggerating! My SO even admitted that.
I would have noticed the lack of tan too. It is summer and Texas is smoking hot in the summer. No way no how he would not at least be beet red.
The Internet is a hot bed of crazy on many of those dating sites. I could tell you some horrifying stories including the woman who was raped and murdered by some guy she met at Match.com. There have been horror stories. Not saying there not some good ones too but this guy isn't one of them. I am sure she could do better than getting involved with a tweaker.
Meth is such a disgusting drug and it makes people deteriorate very quickly.
Does he have all of his teeth? Missing teeth is a meth thing too. He could still be using or could relapse. If he is rough looking from drugs then his use is not that far in the past.
But you have to refrain from putting your SO in the middle. He really can't do a thing about it. She is an adult which means she is free to make a mess of her life.