hmmm... what does everyone honestly think?
i wonder, sometimes.
it seems to me that all my relationships with male friends have always
taken that turn, down that shaky road, and if it wasnt something i wanted
they would always want out of the friendship... always the same story;
be with me, or i cant know you anymore...
i have been looking back, and looking around a lot lately, and have come
to see that i dont have very many friends i havent been intimate at one
point with, whether while drunk & having fun, or, thinking it was a good
idea to try it with your closest friend(s) because you are so close to them...
(not all at the same time, of course, but, at different points through life)
and what with married people, or people in long-term relationships,
how many opposite-sex friends do you have? that are your friends, and
not your's and your husbands/wifes?
how often do you encounter jealous tendancy in your husband/wife? and
what does it do to the relationship, how does it affect you?
a lot of my friendships have ended in ultamadums, and i have lost, and
its at the point now where i wonder if it's possible to just have a male
friend i dont want to be intimate with, and wont want to be intimate with
me... something that wont ever cross either of our minds, or, not seriously anyway.
eh... i dont know.
i'd love to know what all of you think, though.
i wonder, sometimes.
it seems to me that all my relationships with male friends have always
taken that turn, down that shaky road, and if it wasnt something i wanted
they would always want out of the friendship... always the same story;
be with me, or i cant know you anymore...
i have been looking back, and looking around a lot lately, and have come
to see that i dont have very many friends i havent been intimate at one
point with, whether while drunk & having fun, or, thinking it was a good
idea to try it with your closest friend(s) because you are so close to them...
(not all at the same time, of course, but, at different points through life)
and what with married people, or people in long-term relationships,
how many opposite-sex friends do you have? that are your friends, and
not your's and your husbands/wifes?
how often do you encounter jealous tendancy in your husband/wife? and
what does it do to the relationship, how does it affect you?
a lot of my friendships have ended in ultamadums, and i have lost, and
its at the point now where i wonder if it's possible to just have a male
friend i dont want to be intimate with, and wont want to be intimate with
me... something that wont ever cross either of our minds, or, not seriously anyway.
eh... i dont know.
i'd love to know what all of you think, though.