Hi!
I adopted a male siamese kitten, named him "Balki" he is 8wks old. I adopted him yesterday(Saturday) and have some questions.
At first he was very shy, but quickly came around. Now, unless I'm holding him, cuddling him and playing with him, he goes nuts. He has an anxiety attack when he realizes I'm gone, and frantically tries to look for me. He howls, and howls and howls some more. I realize he is siamese, and they are naturally more vocal. But, once I come back his whole body trembles in a panic. This is quickly remedied by me picking him up and cuddling him. His trembles turn to purring, and content. He also tries to nurse off of me. I'm probably doing more harm than good by constantly "rescuing him". My problem obviously is that I work full time and can't devote 24-7 to him. He will have to get use to being alone during the day with 3 other cats. I have to work tomorrow, any suggestions?
Also, he isn't litter box trained. The breeder said he was, and he might just be very nervous, but has had accidents in the house. I take him to the litter pan and make his paws scratch in the box. I also put some extra pans around the house in plain sight to him. He is not using the box yet. I have never had this problem with any of my other cats, they came to me litter trained already.
Also, for some reason the breeder was feeding him supper super canned food by 9 lives. I really don't want to feed him this, but it is the only thing he will eat. I've tried, he won't touch dry food. I figured I will just feed him what he wants and will eat well until he is settled, then wean him off of it. Is this ok?
He has been tested for felv/fiv so I let him out with the rest of my cats due to high levels of anxiety. He can't stand to be alone, not even for a minute. He completely freaked out in the guest room by himself, trashed the room. So far, my other cats seem ok with him.
Any advice? It's been a while since I had a kitten.
I adopted a male siamese kitten, named him "Balki" he is 8wks old. I adopted him yesterday(Saturday) and have some questions.
At first he was very shy, but quickly came around. Now, unless I'm holding him, cuddling him and playing with him, he goes nuts. He has an anxiety attack when he realizes I'm gone, and frantically tries to look for me. He howls, and howls and howls some more. I realize he is siamese, and they are naturally more vocal. But, once I come back his whole body trembles in a panic. This is quickly remedied by me picking him up and cuddling him. His trembles turn to purring, and content. He also tries to nurse off of me. I'm probably doing more harm than good by constantly "rescuing him". My problem obviously is that I work full time and can't devote 24-7 to him. He will have to get use to being alone during the day with 3 other cats. I have to work tomorrow, any suggestions?
Also, he isn't litter box trained. The breeder said he was, and he might just be very nervous, but has had accidents in the house. I take him to the litter pan and make his paws scratch in the box. I also put some extra pans around the house in plain sight to him. He is not using the box yet. I have never had this problem with any of my other cats, they came to me litter trained already.
Also, for some reason the breeder was feeding him supper super canned food by 9 lives. I really don't want to feed him this, but it is the only thing he will eat. I've tried, he won't touch dry food. I figured I will just feed him what he wants and will eat well until he is settled, then wean him off of it. Is this ok?
He has been tested for felv/fiv so I let him out with the rest of my cats due to high levels of anxiety. He can't stand to be alone, not even for a minute. He completely freaked out in the guest room by himself, trashed the room. So far, my other cats seem ok with him.
Any advice? It's been a while since I had a kitten.