OK, I'm posting for two reasons: one, I need to vent; two, I need a little advice to get this into perspective.
OK, my fiance and I live in the downtown Atlanta area. His twin goes to UGA, about two hours away. My mom and their mom both live outside of the city, about 30 minutes north, but one is toward the east, the other to the west. Alex and I hate downtown, so we often go visit my mom on the weekends, who loves to have us. We don't tend to visit their mom cuz she has less space and, at times, can be a little unreliable. Alex's twin, Andrew, comes into town a lot, too, to see us and to see his girlfriend, who lives here, too. He usually stays with their mom.
So, anyway, their mom is out of town for all of April, and Andrew asked if he could stay at my mom's place (every weekend this month). He's stayed here before, so we said sure. We all like having him, too. Well, last night, he was supposed to be out with his girlfriend and then come back around midnight. This was fine, since we were going to still be up then anyway and could let him in.
Well, what does he go and do? He didn't even CALL until after 2am last night. He has no cell phone, so we had no way of getting ahold of him. He just didn't show up, didn't call, etc. and left us waiting up, cuz he couldn't get in the house otherwise cuz he has no key!!!!
So, he finally calls well after 2am, says, "Oh, I'm sorry, I'm coming over now, could you please put the garage door up for me in a few minutes?" He didn't get there til after 3:00 IN THE MORNING!!!!! Ugh! I was so furious! You just don't do that when you are staying with someone like that. I thought it was sooooo irresponsible and rude of him. I went to bed without saying one word to him; I was so mad that I was afraid I'd say something really cruel and regret it in the morning!!
I'm tempted to invite him to not ever come back over here to stay the night if he's going to do stuff like that! Am I overly worked up over this? Or am I right in thinking it was a really rude thing to do? What makes it even worse is his girlfriend was supposed to call him Thursday during the day, but didn't. So, he was talking and venting to me on Thursday night (since she still hadn't called) about how much he hates when people do that and how he deserves better. And then he turns around and does it to us!!!
GRRRRRRR!!! I'm so mad, and I just don't know how to handle the situation; I FEEL like going and flattening his nose for him!! What can I do?
OK, my fiance and I live in the downtown Atlanta area. His twin goes to UGA, about two hours away. My mom and their mom both live outside of the city, about 30 minutes north, but one is toward the east, the other to the west. Alex and I hate downtown, so we often go visit my mom on the weekends, who loves to have us. We don't tend to visit their mom cuz she has less space and, at times, can be a little unreliable. Alex's twin, Andrew, comes into town a lot, too, to see us and to see his girlfriend, who lives here, too. He usually stays with their mom.
So, anyway, their mom is out of town for all of April, and Andrew asked if he could stay at my mom's place (every weekend this month). He's stayed here before, so we said sure. We all like having him, too. Well, last night, he was supposed to be out with his girlfriend and then come back around midnight. This was fine, since we were going to still be up then anyway and could let him in.
Well, what does he go and do? He didn't even CALL until after 2am last night. He has no cell phone, so we had no way of getting ahold of him. He just didn't show up, didn't call, etc. and left us waiting up, cuz he couldn't get in the house otherwise cuz he has no key!!!!
I'm tempted to invite him to not ever come back over here to stay the night if he's going to do stuff like that! Am I overly worked up over this? Or am I right in thinking it was a really rude thing to do? What makes it even worse is his girlfriend was supposed to call him Thursday during the day, but didn't. So, he was talking and venting to me on Thursday night (since she still hadn't called) about how much he hates when people do that and how he deserves better. And then he turns around and does it to us!!!