I have made a few posts about her so you guys should know that she had knee replacement done almost 7 weeks ago.
She fell yesterday at home, she tripped over a rug on the hard wood floor and went down on her new knee and the other one slammed into it. Against his will, my dad took her to the ER and they took xrays and said everything was fine. Its just swollen and she has a mild contusion. Its a titanium knee so she couldn't really do much damage to the knee its self. She did not trust the knee to begin with and now that she fell she is almost refusing to walk which is the WRONG thing to do. If she wants use of that leg she needs to walk and move it but she is so afraid of damaging it that she doesn't want to do anything.
My dad is absoutly out of patience with her and is actually thinking about getting a divorce after she gets the other knee replaced and is back on her feet. It doesn't help that, even though he is a doctor, he has a HORRIBLE bedside manor. He is a VERY driven person and HATES depending on anyone...my mom....she is the exact opposite. If she could stay in bed and get waited on hand and foot for the rest of her life she would. If it wasn't for the pain and discomfort she would actually enjoy being disabled like this. So while she things she is trying her best, my dad doesn't think that she is doing anything. This is killing there relationship and I would hate for it to end after almost 30 years. I believe they were married in 1978 but I could be wrong. Anyway he is very very tired of this and tired of having to deal with her and she is absolutly tired of dealing with him and his cass attitude.
Its hard on me because I'm not there and don't know whats going on. I can't judge for my self the progress she is making and I keep getting conflicting stories from them about how she is doing. My mom did NOT sound good when I talked to her on the phone today, she is regressing, and doesn't want to do anything at the moment. She is so scared and I am scared that she is going to end up with a stiff knee that is useless. She goes to the doctor tomorrow and he is going to try to talk to her and see when she can start going to Theorpy again but I don't know if she is going to go.
My brother scared the crap out of me last night when he told me to...and then he thought it was funny that I got scared. Thats big brothers for you. I am going home on Thursday night and I will finally be able to see my mom and help around the house for about a day before I leave for a week and then I will be back in Chicago for another week to help around the house. The only problem is my mom sleeps in my room and my brother his home so the house is getting a little full. I don't want to ask for my room back and I am more than happy to sleep on the couch down stairs it just kind of puts me in the middle of everything. I want to be home and help out but I kind of feel like I am just going to be in the way.
Anyway if you guys could send my parents some vibes that would be great.
She fell yesterday at home, she tripped over a rug on the hard wood floor and went down on her new knee and the other one slammed into it. Against his will, my dad took her to the ER and they took xrays and said everything was fine. Its just swollen and she has a mild contusion. Its a titanium knee so she couldn't really do much damage to the knee its self. She did not trust the knee to begin with and now that she fell she is almost refusing to walk which is the WRONG thing to do. If she wants use of that leg she needs to walk and move it but she is so afraid of damaging it that she doesn't want to do anything.
My dad is absoutly out of patience with her and is actually thinking about getting a divorce after she gets the other knee replaced and is back on her feet. It doesn't help that, even though he is a doctor, he has a HORRIBLE bedside manor. He is a VERY driven person and HATES depending on anyone...my mom....she is the exact opposite. If she could stay in bed and get waited on hand and foot for the rest of her life she would. If it wasn't for the pain and discomfort she would actually enjoy being disabled like this. So while she things she is trying her best, my dad doesn't think that she is doing anything. This is killing there relationship and I would hate for it to end after almost 30 years. I believe they were married in 1978 but I could be wrong. Anyway he is very very tired of this and tired of having to deal with her and she is absolutly tired of dealing with him and his cass attitude.
Its hard on me because I'm not there and don't know whats going on. I can't judge for my self the progress she is making and I keep getting conflicting stories from them about how she is doing. My mom did NOT sound good when I talked to her on the phone today, she is regressing, and doesn't want to do anything at the moment. She is so scared and I am scared that she is going to end up with a stiff knee that is useless. She goes to the doctor tomorrow and he is going to try to talk to her and see when she can start going to Theorpy again but I don't know if she is going to go.
My brother scared the crap out of me last night when he told me to...and then he thought it was funny that I got scared. Thats big brothers for you. I am going home on Thursday night and I will finally be able to see my mom and help around the house for about a day before I leave for a week and then I will be back in Chicago for another week to help around the house. The only problem is my mom sleeps in my room and my brother his home so the house is getting a little full. I don't want to ask for my room back and I am more than happy to sleep on the couch down stairs it just kind of puts me in the middle of everything. I want to be home and help out but I kind of feel like I am just going to be in the way.
Anyway if you guys could send my parents some vibes that would be great.