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Hey Guys,
Some History :
I have an orange tabby it is a very nice cat but for some reason it is fearful of everything for the last 3 years. It has been at our house for the last three years and it has yet to hiss or get mad at anyone, including strangers who pet it. You can pet this cat for days and you will not a hear a thing from him.
These summer days the cat is pretty much living outdoor, and very rarely comes into the home. In the mornings it usually waits by the glass door for me to come and feed it. Sometimes, when I open the door it will coming running for me from its hiding spots. When I go out it shows a lot of affection, tons of head bumps, straight tails, purring, rubbing, its mouth is watering with saliva and finally flips on the back a wants a belly rub. It also does happy bites on my legs and arms. These bits just involve the teeth touching my skin. Same thing happens in the evenings. When I go out to pet the cat when it is taking a nap, it usually lets me pet it and then flips over for a belly rub.
Problem:
In the last week or so, everything started to fall apart. Last Wednesday it went out for 2-3 days without coming home, it finally showed up on Friday night, sort of scared, hungry and dirty. First thing I did was give it some food (dry and wet) and also some water, it pretty much ignored it. Since it was very dirty I decided to give it a water rinse (this was a big no no). I put it in a big plastic bin and used the garden hose to pour some water and rubbed it down. It definitely did not enjoy it. After that I took a towel wiped him down and put him in the garage and moved the food there. After some slight hesitation he started eating the food.
Saturday morning and evening it was back to its normal self of belly rubs , head bumps. I left it in the garage with more food and water. Usually our garage does not get over 80 in the summer, so it much better than the 100+ outside. On Sunday morning it did not eat anything and was very reserved any how I opened the garage door and let it out. It was hiding in a corner, when I let him out.
After Sunday it again disappeared for couple of days, I would see it around the neighborhood but when I try to go near it, it runs away. Every night and morning I usually set dry food and water outside before I leave. Last two days food did not move, so I know the cat has not come home. I would throw out the old stuff and put new food at the end of the day.
Finally yesterday night (Tuesday) I saw the cat in our backyard and it ate a little bit of the dry food, when I opened the door it ran away. In the morning it was sleeping in the yard but when I opened the door it ran away. I put another bowl of dry food for it, it came back in a couple of hours and ate a little bit. This time instead of running away after eating it went and slept in the far side of the yard. I put out more dry food and wet food, this time it did not runaway after I opened the door. It just raised its head and watched me.
I am not sure what happened to it in the last week, why is it so terrified of me. I should have not given it a cold bath on Saturday, that was a big mistake but the next day it warmed up to me quite well, now it does not even come near me.
I am happy that it is coming back and sleeping in the yard, and eating the food. I will keep putting wet and dry food outside for it in the morning and evenings. I am thinking it will take it at least another week or two before it lets me go near it for now I will try not to go near it. I will just put the food outside. I am happy that it is getting cozy with the territory again. Since it is coming back for food and sleeping it is a good thing. It feels safe again in the yard.
Any advice, I really miss the affection the cat shows me. Should I put the cat in the garage for a week or so if I get hold of him?
Thank you,
Some History :
I have an orange tabby it is a very nice cat but for some reason it is fearful of everything for the last 3 years. It has been at our house for the last three years and it has yet to hiss or get mad at anyone, including strangers who pet it. You can pet this cat for days and you will not a hear a thing from him.
These summer days the cat is pretty much living outdoor, and very rarely comes into the home. In the mornings it usually waits by the glass door for me to come and feed it. Sometimes, when I open the door it will coming running for me from its hiding spots. When I go out it shows a lot of affection, tons of head bumps, straight tails, purring, rubbing, its mouth is watering with saliva and finally flips on the back a wants a belly rub. It also does happy bites on my legs and arms. These bits just involve the teeth touching my skin. Same thing happens in the evenings. When I go out to pet the cat when it is taking a nap, it usually lets me pet it and then flips over for a belly rub.
Problem:
In the last week or so, everything started to fall apart. Last Wednesday it went out for 2-3 days without coming home, it finally showed up on Friday night, sort of scared, hungry and dirty. First thing I did was give it some food (dry and wet) and also some water, it pretty much ignored it. Since it was very dirty I decided to give it a water rinse (this was a big no no). I put it in a big plastic bin and used the garden hose to pour some water and rubbed it down. It definitely did not enjoy it. After that I took a towel wiped him down and put him in the garage and moved the food there. After some slight hesitation he started eating the food.
Saturday morning and evening it was back to its normal self of belly rubs , head bumps. I left it in the garage with more food and water. Usually our garage does not get over 80 in the summer, so it much better than the 100+ outside. On Sunday morning it did not eat anything and was very reserved any how I opened the garage door and let it out. It was hiding in a corner, when I let him out.
After Sunday it again disappeared for couple of days, I would see it around the neighborhood but when I try to go near it, it runs away. Every night and morning I usually set dry food and water outside before I leave. Last two days food did not move, so I know the cat has not come home. I would throw out the old stuff and put new food at the end of the day.
Finally yesterday night (Tuesday) I saw the cat in our backyard and it ate a little bit of the dry food, when I opened the door it ran away. In the morning it was sleeping in the yard but when I opened the door it ran away. I put another bowl of dry food for it, it came back in a couple of hours and ate a little bit. This time instead of running away after eating it went and slept in the far side of the yard. I put out more dry food and wet food, this time it did not runaway after I opened the door. It just raised its head and watched me.
I am not sure what happened to it in the last week, why is it so terrified of me. I should have not given it a cold bath on Saturday, that was a big mistake but the next day it warmed up to me quite well, now it does not even come near me.
I am happy that it is coming back and sleeping in the yard, and eating the food. I will keep putting wet and dry food outside for it in the morning and evenings. I am thinking it will take it at least another week or two before it lets me go near it for now I will try not to go near it. I will just put the food outside. I am happy that it is getting cozy with the territory again. Since it is coming back for food and sleeping it is a good thing. It feels safe again in the yard.
Any advice, I really miss the affection the cat shows me. Should I put the cat in the garage for a week or so if I get hold of him?
Thank you,