I have had Tomnus around 3 different cats. The first one is my parents cat at my parents house. Tom was very submissive and upon meeting this cat Tom was on his side showing that he wasn't a threat. My parents cat didn't really care about Tom so they get along okay. I've had him stay at my parents house with out me for up to 10 days and he has been fine with my parents cat. Then I tried to bring a second cat into the apartment and that didn't go well at all. I spent the entire day and night breaking up cat fights before I finally locked the other cat in the bathroom and then Tom still tried to get at him though the door. I returned that cat and Tom went back to normal after a few days. Recently I had him at my summer home for the first time with another cat. It was my grandmothers cat and again tom was very submissive. He went right up to the other cat and rolled onto his side again. The other cat didn't buy it this time though and growled and hissed at Tom but thats as far as it went.
I am wondering why he gets along with some cats and not others?
The summer home, though we aren't up there on a regular basis would still be considered his property because he has been up there about 6 times with no other cats so I am sure he see's it as his so I don't think its a territory thing. My parents cat and my Grandma's cat are both rather large(over 17 pounds each) and tom is about 9 pounds so it might be a size thing but I don't know. The cat I brought home was only about 5 months old where Tom was about 10 months old but he's big for his age(long and tall). The third guess I have is he somehow tells that the other two cats that he got along with were older and showed them submission because they were older but again I doubt that.
Any Ideas?
I am wondering why he gets along with some cats and not others?
The summer home, though we aren't up there on a regular basis would still be considered his property because he has been up there about 6 times with no other cats so I am sure he see's it as his so I don't think its a territory thing. My parents cat and my Grandma's cat are both rather large(over 17 pounds each) and tom is about 9 pounds so it might be a size thing but I don't know. The cat I brought home was only about 5 months old where Tom was about 10 months old but he's big for his age(long and tall). The third guess I have is he somehow tells that the other two cats that he got along with were older and showed them submission because they were older but again I doubt that.
Any Ideas?