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One of my friends just found out today that she will be undergoing a life- altering surgery. Like so many of us, she has been fighting a weight problem due to medical issues for so long, she never thought she would see the light at the end of the tunnel. She felt trapped, and lost and frustrated. Trying all the conventional measures that are out there to drop this weight,proved inadequate and she would always find herself falling short.
All that changed for her today. She was approved for a surgery that will help her out in this department. What she felt was the last resort and what she felt she could never attain, has been reached. She relayed to me that she has been weeping ever since.
She asked me if I could relate, as we have never met and only know each other electronically. I certainly can relate to her elation, her nervousness, her crying jags, and to her angst about the weight issue in itself. It seems like the older I get, the closer the earth seems to get to parts of my body (if you know what I mean?)
In the wintertime, I put on more weight, taking it off in the summer when I get active again and start training my two horses, it sort of cycles through me, and I have accepted it.
My friend gets a chance to get her life back now. She has a tough road ahead, because it is a complete dietary change that comes with this surgery, as well as a psychological change. The person that she will see in the mirror a month after the surgery will be the person she had always hoped to be. She will now have a forbidden list of foods, and if she breaks that list, the consequences could be severe. This is not something that she takes lightly, she has planned this for over a year and has set herself up to be prepared to be told it would not be possible. Now she has to reset her thinking- (if she can stop crying that is.)
I told her that I wish her luck, and I do. It is not an easy path she seeks to walk down, but it feels right for her. I wish her all the success in the world.
All that changed for her today. She was approved for a surgery that will help her out in this department. What she felt was the last resort and what she felt she could never attain, has been reached. She relayed to me that she has been weeping ever since.
She asked me if I could relate, as we have never met and only know each other electronically. I certainly can relate to her elation, her nervousness, her crying jags, and to her angst about the weight issue in itself. It seems like the older I get, the closer the earth seems to get to parts of my body (if you know what I mean?)
My friend gets a chance to get her life back now. She has a tough road ahead, because it is a complete dietary change that comes with this surgery, as well as a psychological change. The person that she will see in the mirror a month after the surgery will be the person she had always hoped to be. She will now have a forbidden list of foods, and if she breaks that list, the consequences could be severe. This is not something that she takes lightly, she has planned this for over a year and has set herself up to be prepared to be told it would not be possible. Now she has to reset her thinking- (if she can stop crying that is.)
I told her that I wish her luck, and I do. It is not an easy path she seeks to walk down, but it feels right for her. I wish her all the success in the world.