A kitten has taken up residence under our deck. We live in a semi rural area and the kitten looks to be about 2 months old. She is climbing a set of stairs and is eating the cat food we leave out for the other cats. We have also been giving her powdered cat milk substitute which she likes. She will come close at times, but will not let us touch her. She looks like she has fleas. Are there commercial flea treatments. The two regular domestic cats we feed are scared stiff of this kitten. What should we do? At what age should we spay this cat. Will it ever be domesticated? She does like to play with a peacock feather and will approach us when we sit out with it. Any advice will be appreciated.