Whew....okay nevermind - I put the kits and their box on the floor on top of a blanket stretched out and a pillow about 2 feet in front of that and she went in there whining and meowing as usual and when it got quiet I peeked around the door and seen her in the box with her kits!!! She stayed in there for about half an hour with them - longest so far without anyone in there with her. She came out in the living room for a couple minutes for some attention and then she went back in there to check on them!!
I feel a HUGE relief...i just hope that she continues caring for them on her own without having to be "forced" to nurse as I know thats stressfull on her and I know having a mommy to snuggle with all is so good for thoes kits - even if its only for short periods of time!
Thank you to everyone for your help and support and getting me thru my hair pulling experience. I have been very stressed out and still am to a certain degree but having her peek in on and care for her kits is a huge stress relief!
I will of course continue to update!