Thanks so much everyone!
Well, She has been on meds since Sat. Finally the "swelling" has gone down some, not all the way, but its not as hard as it was. Its not red like it was either. Even where she chewed has healed. She has another week till she is off the meds and by then she should be feeling pretty darn good!
She has been wearing that head cone gear thing. I think over all that has helped the most. Surprisingly it does not seem to irritate her at all. She eats, and drinks and potties. Hardly cries. She is being a trooper!
I will normally take it off for her to eat, just to be nice. I put it right back on tho. She loves to lick it and the vet says that is a huge NO.
I tried to let Kissa and her Zelda sit together but Kissa wants to lick her spay site as well. So, I really cant have them together. I feel bad. Least they can meow at each other by the door. LOL.