Hi, I'll try to keep this as simple as I can:
Today my wife found a kitten wandering on a main road and after we checked all the houses in the area and surrounds (none of the households were missing a kitten) we decided to keep her. She's about 4 weeks old, no trouble at all and gorgeous.
Now here's the problem: we adopted a cat two years ago, her name is Daphne, we got her when she was 8 weeks old, the local SPCA found her at 2weeks old and had to hand rear her until she was ready to go to a good home, the trouble was that she was kept away from other people and animals and had to spend a lot of time by herself, and when we finally got her it took ages for her to trust us (she still has off-days but care, time, love and attention has paid off and we have a strong bond with each other). However she has an almost psychotic dislike of other cats - shreiking, hissing and relentless growling. The level of animosity directed towards this kitten from her is scary - Daphne is now also really resentful towards us - and refuses to even be in the same room as us, she seems really rattled and angry at us for bringing in this new cat. My worry is that I have no idea if this will be permanent or just a phase of her getting use to the kitten, but I couldn't stand the thought of traumatising her, especially after everything that she's been through and earning her trust, which wasn't easy.
We always said that we would like another kitten, and I know we could give this little one a good home but I'm concerned about the Daphne's quality of life and undoing all the progress she's made a over the last 2 years. On the other hand we've already grown attached to the little kitten and I know it will be heartbreaking for my wife to have to hand over this little kitten to someone else. This is a genuine dillema, please if anybody has any advice I would appreciate it. Thank you.
Today my wife found a kitten wandering on a main road and after we checked all the houses in the area and surrounds (none of the households were missing a kitten) we decided to keep her. She's about 4 weeks old, no trouble at all and gorgeous.
Now here's the problem: we adopted a cat two years ago, her name is Daphne, we got her when she was 8 weeks old, the local SPCA found her at 2weeks old and had to hand rear her until she was ready to go to a good home, the trouble was that she was kept away from other people and animals and had to spend a lot of time by herself, and when we finally got her it took ages for her to trust us (she still has off-days but care, time, love and attention has paid off and we have a strong bond with each other). However she has an almost psychotic dislike of other cats - shreiking, hissing and relentless growling. The level of animosity directed towards this kitten from her is scary - Daphne is now also really resentful towards us - and refuses to even be in the same room as us, she seems really rattled and angry at us for bringing in this new cat. My worry is that I have no idea if this will be permanent or just a phase of her getting use to the kitten, but I couldn't stand the thought of traumatising her, especially after everything that she's been through and earning her trust, which wasn't easy.
We always said that we would like another kitten, and I know we could give this little one a good home but I'm concerned about the Daphne's quality of life and undoing all the progress she's made a over the last 2 years. On the other hand we've already grown attached to the little kitten and I know it will be heartbreaking for my wife to have to hand over this little kitten to someone else. This is a genuine dillema, please if anybody has any advice I would appreciate it. Thank you.