my miscarriage was confirmed yesterday

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I had an ultrasound and it confirmed what I didn't want to admit to myself... the earlier bleeding I'd had resulted in a miscarriage.


I was SO happy to be pregnant, I didn't want to let myself accept the suspicion I'd had about the bleeding. I was 6 weeks in when it happened, and got "confimation" at what would have been 8 weeks.

I don't want to be not pregnant. I want a family, a baby...
 
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Originally Posted by thh20

I had an ultrasound and it confirmed what I didn't want to admit to myself... the earlier bleeding I'd had resulted in a miscarriage.


I was SO happy to be pregnant, I didn't want to let myself accept the suspicion I'd had about the bleeding. I was 6 weeks in when it happened, and got "confimation" at what would have been 8 weeks.

I don't want to be not pregnant. I want a family, a baby...
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I know how you feel. I had a miscarriage before I got pregnant for our wonderful daughter. My doctor told me not to be sad, that the baby was probably not forming correctly and my body did what it needed to do. Just take care of your body, get back in shape and you'll be pregnant again before you know it. That's how it happened with me and I had an absolute wonderful pregnancy - not one sick day.
 
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Originally Posted by thh20

I don't want to be not pregnant. I want a family, a baby...
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I´m really so sorry my friend.....
Words aren´t enought to say I´m so sorry about it...

I KNOW what you talking about....feel free to PM if you need to vent anything my friend....


to you and hubby...
 
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Aww Honey!
I feel so sorry for you right now, it must be so hard....

My thoughts and prayers are with you!
 
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So sorry to hear about what's happened.
I hope everything will get better for you.
 
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I am so sorry
I know how hard it is, I have lost twice. Take care of yourself . When you feel ready you can try again.
 
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I am very sorry for the loss of your baby. Sending for healing.
 
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i'm sorry for your loss it must be really hard but just keep in mind you have to take care of yourself now so you can try again!
 
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I'm so sorry


My mom had one of those before she had me. Now I'm here to brighten her life


Keep trying and don't be too sad
 
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Losing a baby is tragic, you will always remember it. I went through something much more tragic at the end of last year. But it was for the best, we will start trying once we get settled and after the wedding.
 
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I'm so sorry about the loss of the baby. Very unfortunately these things do happen, but you're young and can try again. I'm sending you lots of for a much better outcome next time.
 
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I am so, so sorry to hear of your great loss. Your heart is broken and there is nothing I can say, though I wish I could, to make that better now.
I wish you peace in your time of sorrow.
 
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