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Today would have been my Parents Anniversary

post #1 of 13
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Today they would have been Married 43 years if Breast Cancer had not taken my Mom.
post #2 of 13
I know there's nothing anyone can say, so I'll just give you some hugs.

I've lost a few family members to cancer, it's incredibly painful. But, not to sound too cliche, she is at least pain free now.

To your dad and the rest of your family, too.

post #3 of 13
Thread Starter 
Thanks,
We lost so mnay family and friends to Cancer.
After my Mom died my Dad became very depressed and he still is.
I try to help him but he dosent listen and always is crying.
post #4 of 13
Cancer is such a cruel disease.
Your Father misses your dear Mother terribly.
I am so sorry.
post #5 of 13
I am so sorry, life seems so unfair
post #6 of 13
Gosh I am so sorry. Cancer is indeed cruel, my family lost my Mother when she was 52, her and my Dad were coming up on their 25th anniversary.
Just be there for your Dad, let him cry and mourn her. In time he will be able to think of her with a smile and not tears, as will all of you.
Big hugs and love to you and your family.
post #7 of 13
Thread Starter 
Thanks All,
My Mom was 54 when she died on Sept 13 1999. I did not even get there in time. I went shopping and bought her a Card and we were going to go later that day but I got a phone call saying to come now she has a 50/50 chance. Then before we could leave another call saying she died. We still went to the Hospital and I went in the room for a minute. My youngest Sister was only 12 at the time. There is a big age differance between me and her. My Dad got remarried three years ago but he is treated bad. We have told him to move out here and get a divorce. He would be happier that way.
post #8 of 13
I am so sorry for your loss
post #9 of 13
Thread Starter 
Thanks,
My Dad was Sad last Friday.
post #10 of 13
I am so sorry for your loss Only time will heal the pain
post #11 of 13
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Originally Posted by mews2much View Post
Thanks All,
My Mom was 54 when she died on Sept 13 1999. I did not even get there in time. I went shopping and bought her a Card and we were going to go later that day but I got a phone call saying to come now she has a 50/50 chance. Then before we could leave another call saying she died. We still went to the Hospital and I went in the room for a minute. My youngest Sister was only 12 at the time. There is a big age differance between me and her. My Dad got remarried three years ago but he is treated bad. We have told him to move out here and get a divorce. He would be happier that way.
I know exactly how you feel. There are days where you seem ok, and others where you aren't. It is hard being with family right now without her. It just doesn't seem right.

I almost wasn't there when my mom died. I stepped out of the room to get a drink, and a friend called me to come back. If it hadn't been for them, I would have missed it.

I can't imagine what you must feel with not being there. I know it is something you think about all the time and there is nothing I or anyone can ever say to make you feel better. I wish there was.
post #12 of 13
Thread Starter 
Thanks,
My Dad went and put flowers there on friday. I plan on putting flowers next time we go to the Bay Area.
post #13 of 13
sorry for your loss I know how hard it is to lose someone close to you to cancer for you and your family on this hard week/month
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