My poor husband, we had to have his cat put to sleep in early February. He (Dickens) was his buddy. Our other two cats have picked me as their person. So, we got a new kitten the end of February and my husband even slept in that room for almost a week to try to get the kitten to bond with him. I am a stay at home mom and I tried to do my best to stay out of the room with the new kitten as much as possible. (so my husband could go in the room when he got home from work and the kitten would be happy to have attention etc. and hopefully pick my husband as his person) So, of course, what happened? The kitten likes me. Ugh! We are getting a fourth cat (kitten) mid to late April and if there is any justice in this world, that kitten will like my husband. He misses Dickens so much. I really want my husband to have a cat, he loves cats but of course you can never figure who they're going to bond with. Just venting.