Hi All,
I'm new here and I've been trying to find an answer to this issue everywhere and I can't seem to get a straight answer.
Back story: My girlfriend and I adopted an 8-month old cat recently who had a sister of the same age. We only took one into our home for a bit until we found that she was not spayed. We spoke to the previous owner about it and she agreed to take the little one to the vet to get spayed. She also asked that if she could get the other one spayed if we would mind taking her as well. We had the room and everything available so we decided to take them both. When Myle (the first one we received) went back to her original home, she and her sister Meya fought a bit but the previous owner said within the week they were curled up together sleeping as usual. They both got spayed, and then came home to us.
At first the two would fight a bit (hissing, batting, we haven't seen any claws yet) and then would leave each other alone. We figured this was because they were in a new place, stressed out, and we obviously smelled different. However, it has been almost three weeks and they still don't seem to be getting along the way their previous owner had illustrated. The fights aren't as often but still occur and we can't tell if they are playing or not. The two are quite the odd couple. Myle is the independent type who will let YOU know when she wants attention and Meya is just attention hungry (but both are cuties)
We have a couple of ideas as to what has been going on. When Myle first came to us she would sleep in our room and sometimes with us on the bed. Once Meya got there, Myles spot of the bed and bedroom was over thrown and now Meya sleeps with us. I imagine Meya is trying to assert some dominance while Myle is trying to as well knowing she was the first cat here.
Also, Meya seems to just want to play a lot with Myle but Myle doesn't want to be bothered so she reacts.
Mind you, they have been together roaming the house for about 3 weeks so I'm not sure separating them would be the best idea now.
Forgive the length of this, we are new to the cat world and just want to make sure the little ones are as happy as humanly (catly?) possible.
Thanks a lot!!
I'm new here and I've been trying to find an answer to this issue everywhere and I can't seem to get a straight answer.
Back story: My girlfriend and I adopted an 8-month old cat recently who had a sister of the same age. We only took one into our home for a bit until we found that she was not spayed. We spoke to the previous owner about it and she agreed to take the little one to the vet to get spayed. She also asked that if she could get the other one spayed if we would mind taking her as well. We had the room and everything available so we decided to take them both. When Myle (the first one we received) went back to her original home, she and her sister Meya fought a bit but the previous owner said within the week they were curled up together sleeping as usual. They both got spayed, and then came home to us.
At first the two would fight a bit (hissing, batting, we haven't seen any claws yet) and then would leave each other alone. We figured this was because they were in a new place, stressed out, and we obviously smelled different. However, it has been almost three weeks and they still don't seem to be getting along the way their previous owner had illustrated. The fights aren't as often but still occur and we can't tell if they are playing or not. The two are quite the odd couple. Myle is the independent type who will let YOU know when she wants attention and Meya is just attention hungry (but both are cuties)
We have a couple of ideas as to what has been going on. When Myle first came to us she would sleep in our room and sometimes with us on the bed. Once Meya got there, Myles spot of the bed and bedroom was over thrown and now Meya sleeps with us. I imagine Meya is trying to assert some dominance while Myle is trying to as well knowing she was the first cat here.
Also, Meya seems to just want to play a lot with Myle but Myle doesn't want to be bothered so she reacts.
Mind you, they have been together roaming the house for about 3 weeks so I'm not sure separating them would be the best idea now.
Forgive the length of this, we are new to the cat world and just want to make sure the little ones are as happy as humanly (catly?) possible.
Thanks a lot!!