My life is in shambles right now, I dont know how to fix it really... Im not the best housekeeper, but Im a good mom, and Im getting alot better at the housekeeping! My MIL comes over everyday to make sure Im doing what Im suppose to do, telling me that my DH told her he was going to divorce me. So Ive busted my butt trying to fix things for him, but he's been mean and nasty to me, hasn't pair any attention to me, and definatly no affection. Im doing everything his mom and him wanted me to do, and I dont know what else to do. Then yesterday she comes over and tells me that I cause him to drink, he drinks all the time. The days when I have a babysitter to watch the kids he finds an excuse to go out with someone else besides me, we havn't been alone together since September. His mom says that all this is my fault, the reason he doesn't look at me anymore is because Im not as pretty or skinny as I use to be, and if that I would wait on him more he wouldn't drink so much... I have a hard time thinking that anyone can be the cause of someone elses drinking constantly?? Any advice?? Im at the lowest I can go, I dont know if I can handle one more nasty word out of her, Im losing my mind, and she wrecking my marraige!
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6/3/08 at 10:33pm