I have a new kitten that my fiance and I just got and we are trying to get my adult cat introduced to him. The problem is is that my cat is not taking to him AT ALL. We had tried in the past to get another cat and my cat just was traumatized. We set up a kitten safe room but anytime we put him in there he screams and howls and it drives me crazy. Should I just give up an accept that my cat is a one cat only gal? I need help because my head is about to split open from these cat meows!