I am hoping maybe someone somewhere on this site has delt with adoption, I was adopted, and i let my daughter go with a family to be adopted. I was 17, and no where near the ability of giving her the love she deserved. She will be 3 in Nov. My adoptive mom, is all about me having a ton of contact, but my brith mom is like me, kinda thining it my hurt more then do any good. My adoptive mother made a dinner date with the family, to see her. I have seen her both xmas' so far, and once on her bday. But this time, I am scared. I miss her so much and I think maybe it maight make it worse, when I see her on sunday. She is sooo happy, and I know I made the right choice, just hurts alot. I just want to know if anyone has any advice. I feel like i am broken in two. My love for her, and my eagerness to move on. Please if anyone has been in this sticky spot, let me know your feelings.. Thanks alot