Today I took in a feral to be spayed that I knew was pregnant (she had put on a lot of weight recently), but when I picked her up the lady at the vet that gave her back to me was like "she was VERY VERY pregnant, you brought her JUST in time". So, now I feel guilty about the abortion, and keep thinking maybe I should have kept her here until she had the kittens.
Last week we brought in 2 cats and one of them had massive tapeworms. I know they treated her for the worms, but that only kills adult tapeworms so within a few weeks the larvae will hatch and she'll have tapeworm again.
I know that I'm helping them avoid disease, pregnancy, injury, etc., but I am starting to feel guilty anyway. How do you help all these feral cats and not worry yourself sick about them, or feel guilty all the time?
Last week we brought in 2 cats and one of them had massive tapeworms. I know they treated her for the worms, but that only kills adult tapeworms so within a few weeks the larvae will hatch and she'll have tapeworm again.
I know that I'm helping them avoid disease, pregnancy, injury, etc., but I am starting to feel guilty anyway. How do you help all these feral cats and not worry yourself sick about them, or feel guilty all the time?