Okay, I was raised rural but I have had some exposure to So.Cal. city living and can see the pros and cons of HOAs.
I hated the HOAs that my sis put up with in Irvine and Aliso Viejo. But my SIL is a doctor in a nice Murrieta Hot Springs community that is built around a golf course & has its own security firm and gardeners for the front yards (the back yards are landscaped by the owners). My uncle in Temecula also lives in a gated community.
My sis couldn't put up a higher fence (matched the regular fencing) to build a cat enclosure. Then she couldn't fly her flag
Then she kept getting warnings cuz her dog was barking too much, but when she shipped the dog north to live with us, the complaints continued 
.....I would be naughty & say that maybe it was sis nagging the hubby, but she was single 
In Temecula, the dogs are about the only thing that folks would have to complain about - they don't run loose, but, oh, boy, the barking
At my SILs complex, the neighbors seem to just have happy dogs and it IS relaxing not to worry about locking your car, or hearing loud music blaring, etc. - it creates a relaxing, country-atmosphere. I think it helps knowing that the security guards are always on patrol - I think the policing helps the neighbors to behave better. I've never heard loud arguing there, etc.
I hated the HOAs that my sis put up with in Irvine and Aliso Viejo. But my SIL is a doctor in a nice Murrieta Hot Springs community that is built around a golf course & has its own security firm and gardeners for the front yards (the back yards are landscaped by the owners). My uncle in Temecula also lives in a gated community.
My sis couldn't put up a higher fence (matched the regular fencing) to build a cat enclosure. Then she couldn't fly her flag
Then she kept getting warnings cuz her dog was barking too much, but when she shipped the dog north to live with us, the complaints continued 
.....I would be naughty & say that maybe it was sis nagging the hubby, but she was single 
In Temecula, the dogs are about the only thing that folks would have to complain about - they don't run loose, but, oh, boy, the barking

At my SILs complex, the neighbors seem to just have happy dogs and it IS relaxing not to worry about locking your car, or hearing loud music blaring, etc. - it creates a relaxing, country-atmosphere. I think it helps knowing that the security guards are always on patrol - I think the policing helps the neighbors to behave better. I've never heard loud arguing there, etc.








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