I hate to get personal online but I am so mad and have no one to talk to. I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t really have any friends since I moved far from home, and my family is hard to get a hold of.
This is a boyfriend issue that I really need to vent. If Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m in the wrong please be blunt, Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m always up for constructive criticism.
Last night I needed to pay someone some cash and I remembered I left some on my dresser. When I went to go get it, it was missing, it was only $7.00 so I didnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t panic too much. I asked my boyfriend if he had seen it and he said he took it to buy me breakfast on Saturday. First off, from what I remember he played Mr. Sweetie boyfriend being all nice and buying me breakfast… Ok so I can laugh at the “dumb male†version of romance but what I canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t get over was the fact that he took money without asking. I am going to school in Sept and with my admission payment and my rabies shot I have 50$ spending money for two weeks … well make that 43$, plus I need to buy cat food and litter. That 7 dollars was my breakfast money for the week.
I mentioned this to him and asked him if he could please ASK me if he could take my money next time and he got all pissed, laughed at me while shaking his head like I was the idiot… I now can not eat breakfast for a week and he laughing at me? He started yelling at me (cant say I didnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t yell back) calling me anal retentive, that it was only 7$ and he couldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t believe I would be upset over this. I feel like now I can never leave cash around without it being safe since hes done this before with the food money we keep out.
I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t care if its 5$ or 1,000$ its my money, I work hard for it. He makes twice as much as me and we do everything 50/50. I am so angry right now… and hungry!
Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m not cheap, donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t get me wrong. I mean it was my birthday weekend and I spent the same amount as my boyfriend did to celebrate. I usually pay more for our weekly grocery because I told him it would only be 50$ a week but its usually more. I pay all the vet/cat food/cat toy. I usually buy all the extras we need in the house (soaps, shampoos, toothpaste etc) along with the fact that I do 90% of all household chores. So im not cheap, to me itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s a matter of principle and respect and he laughed at me and tried to make me look like a fool.
I just feel so tired… and disappointed I guess.
This is a boyfriend issue that I really need to vent. If Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m in the wrong please be blunt, Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m always up for constructive criticism.
Last night I needed to pay someone some cash and I remembered I left some on my dresser. When I went to go get it, it was missing, it was only $7.00 so I didnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t panic too much. I asked my boyfriend if he had seen it and he said he took it to buy me breakfast on Saturday. First off, from what I remember he played Mr. Sweetie boyfriend being all nice and buying me breakfast… Ok so I can laugh at the “dumb male†version of romance but what I canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t get over was the fact that he took money without asking. I am going to school in Sept and with my admission payment and my rabies shot I have 50$ spending money for two weeks … well make that 43$, plus I need to buy cat food and litter. That 7 dollars was my breakfast money for the week.
I mentioned this to him and asked him if he could please ASK me if he could take my money next time and he got all pissed, laughed at me while shaking his head like I was the idiot… I now can not eat breakfast for a week and he laughing at me? He started yelling at me (cant say I didnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t yell back) calling me anal retentive, that it was only 7$ and he couldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t believe I would be upset over this. I feel like now I can never leave cash around without it being safe since hes done this before with the food money we keep out.
I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t care if its 5$ or 1,000$ its my money, I work hard for it. He makes twice as much as me and we do everything 50/50. I am so angry right now… and hungry!
Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m not cheap, donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t get me wrong. I mean it was my birthday weekend and I spent the same amount as my boyfriend did to celebrate. I usually pay more for our weekly grocery because I told him it would only be 50$ a week but its usually more. I pay all the vet/cat food/cat toy. I usually buy all the extras we need in the house (soaps, shampoos, toothpaste etc) along with the fact that I do 90% of all household chores. So im not cheap, to me itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s a matter of principle and respect and he laughed at me and tried to make me look like a fool.
I just feel so tired… and disappointed I guess.