Apartment Hunting (bit of a rant)

It sounds like the landlord may owe you bigtime -- moving expenses, at the very least.

And I know it's overwhelming when you have so much to do in such a short time. May I suggest... if you can make a detailed list of everything you have to do, figure out the order in which it needs to happen, and put in some deadlines, that may help you feel a little less scattered. At least you'll be able to see where you stand... and it can also help a lot just to have it all written down, so you don't feel like you have to try to hold it in your head.

Is there a "suite" hotel in your town? One of those where you can rent a room with a small kitchen on a weekly or monthly basis? They're usually not the nicest places in the world, but they can be a great short-term solution while you figure out something for the long term.

Maybe you could look for a sublet that won't last a whole lot longer (like through summer or something).

If your bf isn't completely sure that the two of you should sign a year's lease together... don't do it. At least not until he is sure. I ended up living with my ex bf for 6 months after we broke up because of this. It is. Not. Fun.

I'm sure all that's doing is adding stress on top of stress

I hope you find shelter soon.

I hope you find a place. Our Place does 6 Months Leases and Month to Month. Here they ahve to give you a 30 day notice.

*huggies* good luck.

Sending prayers and vibes that you find another place soon Will your current landlord offer to help you find another place?? Seems like he'd owe you something for helping you evacuate the premises. Have you checked into your state's landlord/tenant laws? Your county's environmental health dept. may have some suggestions, too.