Her response was:
"I didn't think you'd need it back so soon. ( me : ) You of all people should know how expensive it is to have a baby. lol Sorry you can't make it but you can send the gift with (our friend's name here). She'll be happy to pick it up. Besides, you should be getting enough child support out of the boys dad to make up for anything you've given me. I, unlike you, am with my baby's dad, so I don't get support.
Well, I have to go, I need to fill your spot at the shower. You have my phone number and address if you want to send a $$$ card. Bye"