I need help with a behavioral problem with one of my cats. She becomes aggressive (occasionally) towards my fiance.
I am the guardian for two cats, Hobbes (male) who I adopted as a kitten in 1995, and Calvin (female) who was adopted as a kitten in 1996. Since adopting them, I have been the only person in the house. When friends would come over, Hobbes would beg for attention, while Calvin would hide quietly.
I noticed whenever I went away and had a friend take care of them, Calvin would growl and hiss at the caretaker. This was not a problem until just recently. Calvin has now begun doing this to my fiance, Jenny, and worse.
Whenever Jenny goes near Calvin in certain areas of my house, Calvin will start to growl and hiss at Jenny. Sometimes Calvin will back away and swipe at Jenny, but recently has begun to lunge foward and swipe The strange thing is that Calvin enjoys approaching Jenny seeking attention, wanting to play, or cuddle. Calvin will jump into bed with us and spend the entire night peacefully with us. But if Jenny gets up and returns to the bed, Calvin will begin to hiss again.
Whenever Calvin becomes aggressive towards Jenny, Jenny stays calm and speaks to Calvin in a soft, gently voice and does her best to make Calvin feel comfortable. This is not working...
Any ideas or suggestions on how to make Calvin get along with Jenny? I appreciate any help anyone can offer.
Thanx,
Michael
p.s.
Jenny seems to feel that Calvin is very protective of me, or jealous that Jenny is taken my away from Calvin (I spend many nights away from Calvin). There could be a connection since Calvin seems to dislike the people associated with me being away overnight (caretakers and Jenny). I think it is more territorial; Calvin usually does not like Jenny comng near Calvin when she is sitting near her food, on the bed, or next to the couch.