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post #1 of 9
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say no to something you don't want to do? I was asked to do an adoption this week and I just really don't want to. I could make the time. I think that's why I feel bad. I feel bad for the kitty that has to stay at the shelter & the people who want to adopt the kitty. Usually if it's for a person I don't feel bad, it's the kitties that I feel guilty about.
post #2 of 9
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Originally Posted by Rang_27 View Post
say no to something you don't want to do? I was asked to do an adoption this week and I just really don't want to. I could make the time. I think that's why I feel bad. I feel bad for the kitty that has to stay at the shelter & the people who want to adopt the kitty. Usually if it's for a person I don't feel bad, it's the kitties that I feel guilty about.

Why is it that you feel bad about it?
post #3 of 9
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I feel bad knowing that they could be in a home, but just because I want to rest they have to stay another day or more at the shelter. I also worry that no one will do it and the person adopting them will get mad and say never mind.
post #4 of 9
Is this part of your job or a volunteer thing you do?
post #5 of 9
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I feel bad knowing that they could be in a home, but just because I want to rest they have to stay another day or more at the shelter. I also worry that no one will do it and the person adopting them will get mad and say never mind.
Well I am sorry that you want to rest, but if it were me, I would just rest later. I would be thrilled that the kitty was finding a new home. And I would feel terrible if the person adopting them said never mind because of me.
post #6 of 9
i know how you feel but think about it, itll help them more if you dont burn yourself out and stick around longer.
post #7 of 9
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i know how you feel but think about it, itll help them more if you dont burn yourself out and stick around longer.
yup. I agree!
post #8 of 9
I don't think you should feel bad for wanting some rest or time to yourself.. but I would probably check to make sure someone else followed through with it.
post #9 of 9
Nope not really...it's more the "I said yes to something I really didn't want to do" that gets to me.
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