RIP Chloe....(catloverin_ks)

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Monica (catloverin_ks) Just text messaged me.
Her baby Chloepassed over the rainbow bridge.
She doesn't know how it happened but that she found her this morning

Monica is completely torn up right now and will post more about it later when she's calmed down.
Could you send her and her family vibes?


RIP Chloe! Play happily over the rainbow bridge
 

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Ugh! What a loss. You can refer her to my thread a few below this one if she needs to see that other people understand the acute suffering she's undergoing right now. I know every loss is personal and never the same for any 2 people, but the grief we feel is universal. I also know that the 1st 2 days are by far the worst. I almost died myself until the 2nd night when I finally could force myself to eat and drink. I just read this poem today that another very nice member linked me to and a quote from it really hit home with me. Here it is.

"They are so dependent on you that even the most well-made of them is
not designed to out live you. You are destined to suffer their loss."

I couldn't have said it better myself, and that really helped me put things in perspective. The bottom line is that no matter what our beautiful babies won't outlast us, so inevitably we'll have to deal with their passing at some point in our lives. I know that doesn't take the pain away, but it at least makes some sense out of their death. Tell her to take care of herself and just let it be. Also let her know that her baby wouldn't want her to suffer too much, so remember that as well. Take care now.
 

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I am so sorry for your loss Monica.


Rest in peace sweet Cali.
 

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Originally Posted by Cooper38

"They are so dependent on you that even the most well-made of them is not designed to out live you. You are destined to suffer their loss."
i recognize that quote - from Choices... my favorite of the bridge tales.
Monica - your Chloe was a beauty!
 

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Quick update guys....first I wanna say thank you for all the support and kind words.

Also it was Chloe, not Cali..I think Alycia must of misunderstood me, but that ok.

Anyways I will post more when I am up to it.
 
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Originally Posted by catloverin_ks

Quick update guys....first I wanna say thank you for all the support and kind words.

Also it was Chloe, not Cali..I think Alycia must of misunderstood me, but that ok.

Anyways I will post more when I am up to it.
I feel so bad
We were both so upset when she text me earlier I musunderstood her
 

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It's just the worst when we didn't know it was coming.
I am so, so, so sorry for your loss, and my heart and prayers go out to you especially right now.


Chloe, you will be very missed. Play happily over the bridge, and send your mommy lots of loving vibes to help heal her heart.



Laurie
 

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Ok as hard as it is for me to be here, I am going to do it anyways. I just wanna post some pics of my angel.






I will post more later. I am still not 100% sure what happened.
 
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