My BIL just called my DH today & he might be coming out to live with and work for us again.....HOW COULD I BE GETTING THIS BAD KHARMA??????
He is absolutely incompetent & really messes things up; when my DH drove him back to MI last fall, the BIL has paid himself $3K w/o telling either of us about it (the BIL had me removed from the business account and was a signator). When the checks began bouncing, I figured out what happened
He caused major friction and even sent my DH an email that I need to be gotten rid of, hopefully divorced from
And why does he HATE me and my cats??? Well, he doesn't like cats [RED FLAG] and I catch him at his shenannigans and call him out on it!! He's even charged me in the office, but when I picked up my hole-puncher as a weapon, he yelled at me even louder but backed off (After that incident, which the entire building heard his commotion, the swearing & yelling, DH moved him back home).
He has used our business' monies to put funds in their worthless cousin's account (my MIL warned me to never let that particular cousin borrow money from us, as that cousin has been written off by both his parent's families).
He wanted to shoot some of my cats at our rural fixer-upper home cuz he says I have too many. And a week later, when I had to leave the area for the weekend to return my grandson to San Diego, my precious AmyRose and Andy went missing
He got into an argument at the vet's over my DH's dog who had bone cancer because I wanted to have the dog PTS, and he wanted to shoot her, to save money (also, he LOVES hunting). The vet intervened, saying for us to do what I was insisting on, and get my DH's decision (DH was in court); of course, my DH insisted on the humane PTS.
He moves my work around, trying to sabotage my job performance....he tries to convince my DH that I somehow steal money from him. My BIL actually stole my planner with $300 cash; after he moved out from our town house, I found my Vons Card & AAA card in the house, among a box of things that they left.
My DH was so happy when he left, but OMG, he has too soft of a heart to tell his brother "no". Because his brother was gone, my adult nieces-in-law came out for a week's visit; BIL is feuding with the nieces, the daughters of the oldest brother; I think that he is jealous that we went on a family vacation to Death Valley, so now he wants to return to make trouble.
I can't give up this job at this office, cuz I am one of the highest paid legal office assistants in the area and I have my disabled daughter, my grandson & my kitties to take care of. PLEASE, SEND MEGA VIBES....
btw, the BIL has a rottweiler named Kitty cuz she eats cats - such humor, right and need I add that the dog is UNVACCINATED, UNSPAYED, and of course, unlicensed....and guess who had to clean the floors from the "cycle-bleeding" when they moved out. And the dog gets to run at large & chase cars - the only reason that the neighbors don't call the cops is cuz the neighbors aren't legally here...HELP!