Hi all,
I guess I'm just looking to hear some positive stories about fostering kitties since I've had a really discouraging experience.
I decided last fall to foster a cat (I have two of my own) so I rescued an adult girl Bonnie from the local high-kill shelter through a rescue organization. I VERY SLOWLY introduced her to my 2 cats and things seemed to be going well. I even bought some Feliway with my own money to help ease the introductions.
Unfortunately Bonnie took a disliking to my boy and would start attacking him for no apparent reason. Needless to say this upset us very much so we separated them. Well now she has started attacking my girl as well, whom she had gotten along with very well up to this point. So now we have to keep Bonnie separated from our cats all the time. She's living in the laundry room which she doesn't like since she's had run of the place a lot of the time until recently. She's been up for adoption for a few months but there hasn't been any interest in her, I guess it's harder to find the adults a home.
I'm just very discouraged about this
I don't want to be a quitter and abandon Bonnie but I didn't anticipate that taking her in would disrupt my own cats so much--maybe I was naive. I've told the rescue organization that I don't think I can keep her here any longer but unfortunately there aren't any foster spots available right now and she would likely have to be in a house without other cats or in a separate room somewhere. I guess I could keep her in the laundry room indefinitely which doesn't seem like much of a life for her, but I guess it's better than the alternative if I hadn't rescued her. She cries most of the time when she is in there which upsets my kitties.
Have other people had similar experiences? I thought I was doing a good thing but now I'm not so sure since I have 3 unhappy cats on my hands.
I guess I'm just looking to hear some positive stories about fostering kitties since I've had a really discouraging experience.
I decided last fall to foster a cat (I have two of my own) so I rescued an adult girl Bonnie from the local high-kill shelter through a rescue organization. I VERY SLOWLY introduced her to my 2 cats and things seemed to be going well. I even bought some Feliway with my own money to help ease the introductions.
Unfortunately Bonnie took a disliking to my boy and would start attacking him for no apparent reason. Needless to say this upset us very much so we separated them. Well now she has started attacking my girl as well, whom she had gotten along with very well up to this point. So now we have to keep Bonnie separated from our cats all the time. She's living in the laundry room which she doesn't like since she's had run of the place a lot of the time until recently. She's been up for adoption for a few months but there hasn't been any interest in her, I guess it's harder to find the adults a home.
I'm just very discouraged about this
Have other people had similar experiences? I thought I was doing a good thing but now I'm not so sure since I have 3 unhappy cats on my hands.