my bf and i are more casual about housework, mostly due to the fact we are hardly home durring the day, and usually the dogs are with us. Its not that our house is dirty, but its lived in. he is more of a slob then i am, he is always leaving pop bottles and cans everywhere and his ashtray is always either spilled or running over. But i can NOT complain due to the fact that his apt before we moved in together was the nastiest thing i had ever seen. I wouldnt have allowed a pig to live like that. The whole complex was nasty, but had he cleaned up a bit it wouldnt have been so bad. He has done some major personal growth since we have been together (i call him a work in progress), so his occasional messes are not near as bad as they could be. I dont demand everything in my house to be perfect, i want it to be a place we and occasional company can relax and not be worried about leaving an occasional mess (it all gets cleand eventually). Oh man this reminds me, my mom and i are shairing rent on a carpet shampooer this weekend, i HATE shampooing carpets.