I would technically be the "slob" of the relationship, but DH doesn't let me get away with it, lol.
I'm adverse to housework because my mom always had us kids do it. When I was in high school, and the last child living at home, I would have to do most of the housework. Sure, my mom worked all day, but she could have helped. And it wasn't as if my dad wasn't around, because he was.
My issue has always been the fact that I was active in after-school programs, and I had an after-school job. And I was still expected to handle nearly all of the housework. My mom would come home, sit on the couch, make a mess, and expect me to clean. I would have gladly helped with housework, if the expectation wasn't that I had to do it all (which was the expectation). Many times I also had to cook.
Did she prepare me for living on my own? Sure, but I still really really dislike housework.