hi...
we recently became the lucky guardians of a stray cat. she was trapped by a friend and taken to the vet for vaccinations and spaying. we're not sure how old she is (the vet didn't say) but she looks, by my untrained eye, under a year but over six months. she seems completely unsocialized to humans. and we've taken to calling her 'piano'.
never having done this before, we're going a little bit by intuition and catsite.com forum advice (thank you by the way!). basically where we're at is here:
piano has been with us since friday of last week (it's now tuesday). she is currently in a large dog crate with a litterbox, a food dish and some blankets. she was originally in a carrier but decided to use that as her litterbox, so i took that out and moved the defecation to the litterbox. since that time, she has only used the litterbox. she even announces when she's "done".
she is incredibly timid and will hiss if a hand comes near her (even one bearing delicious treats). she will not eat if someone is in the room with her though her appetite is good. she occasionally blinks slowly at me as if she knows i'm a friend; occasionally she looks at me as if i may strike her. we try to keep some noise about during the day so that she gets used to human voices. she doesn't move very much (or say anything really) except the past couple of nights, she has started crying after we've gone to bed. we have gone out to peek on her but she just looks at us as if she wasn't the one making the noise (hilarious!). it seems, like most of us, she has some pretty major trust issues. which is okay. we're happy that she's here.
so given that background, i guess my questions are these:
- she doesn't seem to be bathing herself. is there any way i can promote this behaviour?
- how do we know when we can let her out of the dog crate and allow her to move freely about the apartment?
- other than patience, what else can we be doing to help her along her way?
she really is a dear cat and i have every faith that she will be a loving friend some day. we really just want to do the best we can for her now so that she's able to thrive in the way we hope she will.
sorry for the long letter. thank you for any suggestions.
keep up the great work!
we recently became the lucky guardians of a stray cat. she was trapped by a friend and taken to the vet for vaccinations and spaying. we're not sure how old she is (the vet didn't say) but she looks, by my untrained eye, under a year but over six months. she seems completely unsocialized to humans. and we've taken to calling her 'piano'.
never having done this before, we're going a little bit by intuition and catsite.com forum advice (thank you by the way!). basically where we're at is here:
piano has been with us since friday of last week (it's now tuesday). she is currently in a large dog crate with a litterbox, a food dish and some blankets. she was originally in a carrier but decided to use that as her litterbox, so i took that out and moved the defecation to the litterbox. since that time, she has only used the litterbox. she even announces when she's "done".
she is incredibly timid and will hiss if a hand comes near her (even one bearing delicious treats). she will not eat if someone is in the room with her though her appetite is good. she occasionally blinks slowly at me as if she knows i'm a friend; occasionally she looks at me as if i may strike her. we try to keep some noise about during the day so that she gets used to human voices. she doesn't move very much (or say anything really) except the past couple of nights, she has started crying after we've gone to bed. we have gone out to peek on her but she just looks at us as if she wasn't the one making the noise (hilarious!). it seems, like most of us, she has some pretty major trust issues. which is okay. we're happy that she's here.
so given that background, i guess my questions are these:
- she doesn't seem to be bathing herself. is there any way i can promote this behaviour?
- how do we know when we can let her out of the dog crate and allow her to move freely about the apartment?
- other than patience, what else can we be doing to help her along her way?
she really is a dear cat and i have every faith that she will be a loving friend some day. we really just want to do the best we can for her now so that she's able to thrive in the way we hope she will.
sorry for the long letter. thank you for any suggestions.
keep up the great work!