Farrah and Spot - sending good to you on this next step to the rest of your life. As difficult as it may seem, things happen for a reason IMO and somewhere down the road you'll look back and be able to see the reason.
As I've sat here and thought about it, I know Poops could use them,too. She's had a spoiled and pampered life for the last three or four years, and I know she will miss them, just as much as they will miss her!
Thanks everyone for the vibes. To answer the questions of what's going on, I am moving out of my boyfriend's house after a 4 year relationship--he said we need some time apart to "rekindle" the relationship. So, I am moving Saturday without Poops. I am so sad to leave her and him.
I don't know how to get past this--being so heart-broken and all. I am so depressed.