I adopted an 8 week old kitten in May of 2000, from our local SPCA. She was intended as a birthday gift for my then 5 year old son. I knew immediately that she was not "normal" as far as behavior goes. She cried a lot, did not like to be handled at all, and at meal times begged for food worse than most dogs I have seen. It was obvious that the foster family who reared her until she was old enough to be adopted, allowed her to eat from the table, as well as allowed thier children to torture her (a behavior profile written by the foster family, included with her adoption papers, said "she is good with kids, she doesn't seem to mind being spun around in the office chair by my 9 year old son").
I called the SPCA to complain about the conditions she was exposed to at the foster family's home (she was also completely infested with fleas). And they rudely told me I could bring her back in and pick out another kitten but that's all they were willing to do.
A few weeks later she began to vomit on a daily basis, and we subsequently learned that she has an extremely sensitive stomach, and cannot digest most brands of cat food, we now feed her Science Diet. Her sensitive stomach does not, however, stop her from aggressively pursuing table scraps, garbage, dog food, or anything left out that is edible. She once started eating a Taco Bell burrito on the table while my back was turned, and instead of running away when she was confronted, like most cats would do, she grabbed the burrito in her mouth and RAN. I chased her throughout the house before the burrito ripped in two, and she made off with the smaller half still in her mouth, and tried to eat it under the couch. I had to physically remove it from her mouth.
She is aggressive, and unfriendly. She only allows my son to hold her, and even then it isn't very often. She is extremely anxious and will lose bladder control in high stress situations, bathing, trip in the car, etc.
If she wants to get your attention when she is hungry, or otherwise in need, she will stand in front of you while you are walking, then attack your leg if you try to go around her. If you get up from the couch to go to the restroom or kitchen, she will immediately take your spot, and when you come back to sit down, she will challenge you for it (threatening to bite, loudly wailing, etc). She does not engage in play or respond to toys unless she is alone in a room, and will not play with the other cats. Her biting has become more aggressive in recent months and most of the time is not provoked (she will bite the kids if they sit next to her or even attempt to touch her).
She has been declawed because of excessive, destructive scratching in response to not getting her way, or being given a bath. Her biting response was present prior to her being declawed, but has gotten much more unpredictable.
She will sneak into the pantry to steal food at every opportunity, which in turn causes her to vomit within a few minutes. Though she is not permitted on tables and countertops, she will hide in an empty chair, pop her head up next to the kitchen table, and try to snatch food of your plate right in front of you.
She sneaks into "off-limits" areas of the house, refuses to leave, and will try to bite you if you physically remove her.
She will deliberately PUSH items off of tables and shelves (countless pots, bowls, vases, and a small fish tank) simply beacause she wanted to occupy the space they were in, get my attention, or was fustrated by not having access to the contents.
Today she has already bitten my son twice. When she bites she hasn't ever broken the skin, but that could very easily happen in the future.
I am totally fed up with feeding, vaccinating, bathing, grooming, and caring for an animal that shows me and my family nothing but animosity. Am I being too demanding in my expectations of a pet? Would she be better off going back to the shelter to be placed with new owner, or should I just deal with it until she gets old and dies?
I called the SPCA to complain about the conditions she was exposed to at the foster family's home (she was also completely infested with fleas). And they rudely told me I could bring her back in and pick out another kitten but that's all they were willing to do.
A few weeks later she began to vomit on a daily basis, and we subsequently learned that she has an extremely sensitive stomach, and cannot digest most brands of cat food, we now feed her Science Diet. Her sensitive stomach does not, however, stop her from aggressively pursuing table scraps, garbage, dog food, or anything left out that is edible. She once started eating a Taco Bell burrito on the table while my back was turned, and instead of running away when she was confronted, like most cats would do, she grabbed the burrito in her mouth and RAN. I chased her throughout the house before the burrito ripped in two, and she made off with the smaller half still in her mouth, and tried to eat it under the couch. I had to physically remove it from her mouth.
She is aggressive, and unfriendly. She only allows my son to hold her, and even then it isn't very often. She is extremely anxious and will lose bladder control in high stress situations, bathing, trip in the car, etc.
If she wants to get your attention when she is hungry, or otherwise in need, she will stand in front of you while you are walking, then attack your leg if you try to go around her. If you get up from the couch to go to the restroom or kitchen, she will immediately take your spot, and when you come back to sit down, she will challenge you for it (threatening to bite, loudly wailing, etc). She does not engage in play or respond to toys unless she is alone in a room, and will not play with the other cats. Her biting has become more aggressive in recent months and most of the time is not provoked (she will bite the kids if they sit next to her or even attempt to touch her).
She has been declawed because of excessive, destructive scratching in response to not getting her way, or being given a bath. Her biting response was present prior to her being declawed, but has gotten much more unpredictable.
She will sneak into the pantry to steal food at every opportunity, which in turn causes her to vomit within a few minutes. Though she is not permitted on tables and countertops, she will hide in an empty chair, pop her head up next to the kitchen table, and try to snatch food of your plate right in front of you.
She sneaks into "off-limits" areas of the house, refuses to leave, and will try to bite you if you physically remove her.
She will deliberately PUSH items off of tables and shelves (countless pots, bowls, vases, and a small fish tank) simply beacause she wanted to occupy the space they were in, get my attention, or was fustrated by not having access to the contents.
Today she has already bitten my son twice. When she bites she hasn't ever broken the skin, but that could very easily happen in the future.
I am totally fed up with feeding, vaccinating, bathing, grooming, and caring for an animal that shows me and my family nothing but animosity. Am I being too demanding in my expectations of a pet? Would she be better off going back to the shelter to be placed with new owner, or should I just deal with it until she gets old and dies?