Funny I should see this thread now
I was waiting for my return ride home from the gym. A woman with 2 young girls (maybe 4 and 6?) sat down on the sofa across from me. I was listening to an ebook, but I heard the oldest girl lean over to her mother and say "Mom. That lady is really fat".
I pretended I didn't hear and the woman pulled her daughter over and I heard her say "That's not very nice! It's mean to say something like that. I never want to hear you say that again! Ok?"
I am glad that she addressed that with the girl. Because it is never ok to "point and laugh" at someone regardless of the reason.
It's not ok to walk up to a black person and say "You're a
" ("N" word), because that's a racial slur and is not tolerated.
Unfortunately us "fat" people experience prejudice every single day in our lives from:
- not getting that good job
- not being able to buy fashionable clothing in a regular department store
- having to pay for TWO plane tickets when flying
- comments and sneers from strangers
And society seems to think that it's ok.
IMHO your boy friend is rude and ignorant. My hope for people like him is that one day they will be a few pounds over weight, or have some physical disability / scarring that will make them "different" and that they will experience the very same prejudice remarks that they subjected other people to for years.
I was waiting for my return ride home from the gym. A woman with 2 young girls (maybe 4 and 6?) sat down on the sofa across from me. I was listening to an ebook, but I heard the oldest girl lean over to her mother and say "Mom. That lady is really fat".
I pretended I didn't hear and the woman pulled her daughter over and I heard her say "That's not very nice! It's mean to say something like that. I never want to hear you say that again! Ok?"
I am glad that she addressed that with the girl. Because it is never ok to "point and laugh" at someone regardless of the reason.
It's not ok to walk up to a black person and say "You're a
Unfortunately us "fat" people experience prejudice every single day in our lives from:
- not getting that good job
- not being able to buy fashionable clothing in a regular department store
- having to pay for TWO plane tickets when flying
- comments and sneers from strangers
And society seems to think that it's ok.
IMHO your boy friend is rude and ignorant. My hope for people like him is that one day they will be a few pounds over weight, or have some physical disability / scarring that will make them "different" and that they will experience the very same prejudice remarks that they subjected other people to for years.