My long-haired cats keep getting mats around their butts. I work on these mats with a dematting comb, but they really hate me messing with their butt fur and we never can get through a whole mat. I am considering taking them to a groomer so we can just start over with no mats and use daily combing so the mats dont develop in the first place (I was new to owning long haired cats so I didnt know that the butt mats were developing until it was too late) and I am also considering a sanitary cut. Was wondering about what is normal at the groomers. Like do they typically use sedatives with cats? (can I refuse to let them use sedatives?) Do the cats have to stay there all day without the owner? Can they just go for a quick procedure (e.g., sanitary shave) or do they need to also stay for a bath, combing, etc?