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post #1 of 13
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Hey I have alot of new changes. First Donald and I split up. He became very controlling and then one day he threatened to throw Chloe across the room. So I packed and left. I am temporarily staying with my dad but as soon as I get some money saved back I will be moving to my own apartment. My friend Mary is fostering Chloe for me until I get my own place. But I start my new job on Tuesday so hopefully it won't take very long I miss my girl so much. Tavia is with me at my dad's and she seems to be okay. When I find a place it will be one that I can take both cats and Lilly to. But in all honesty I feel more like myself than I have in a long while. My sister and I are getting along and my dad and I are as well. But I think we will get along much better once I have my own place. I can't wait. I am a bit burned on dating. He had become very jealous in a short amount of time and he didn't want me going to my dad's or my sister's, or any of my friends. And he was drinking a case of beer every night almost. And if I had stayed I would have eventually become one of those women who where long sleeves and dark glasses to hide the bruises and I am too strong of a woman for that. I just thought I would let everyone know what's going on and that I miss you all.
post #2 of 13
It's good you got out when you did.
post #3 of 13
Well I am glad you got out of that relationship early.
I hope your new job goes well and you can have both kitties back with you in a short period of time.

Keep in touch!!
post #4 of 13
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I am hoping I get a place really soon my friend's cat is teaching Chloe some bad habits and besides they are not as careful as I am with her, due to an injury she had when I rescued her, and I miss her so much. But they were the only people who would take her for the time being. The first couple of weeks I just moped around and found my job its taken nearly a month to get it going because they have a long process they go through of background checks and such but its coming together. And now my problem is people telling me I should get rid of my girls and my answer to that is not ever. I may have to watch my pennys but I can do it. The move in is what's going to be hard but after that I will be fine. And my girls will be better than fine. All they need is their meowmy and their sissy Lilly.
post #5 of 13
You have found your inner strength and you must never lose it again. Good luck that you find your own place soon and can start a new life.
post #6 of 13
I was just wondering yesterday where you had disappeared to..You are very strong for leaving a guy like that..way to go

You'll be back on your feet in no time
post #7 of 13
I'm glad you got out of that relationship in time, Gail, and are getting your life back on track. Lots of well wishes and !
post #8 of 13
This if anything will make you a stronger person. I hope you manage to find a lovely place for you and the babies
post #9 of 13
Glad to hear you got out of that relationship asap! Good luck with getting your apartment and putting your fur-family back together
post #10 of 13
Very glad to hear you go out of a bad situation. A lot of women don't have the inner strength to do it... Any man who can treat a woman like an object is no man at all...

Wishing you the best!!!
post #11 of 13
Good for you for leaving before it got any worse. Way too many women stick around in such relationships.

I hope things work out well for you Getting away from an abusive partner is a step in the right direction.
post #12 of 13
Thread Starter 
I think if anything this will make me a better person for the first time in my life I actually stood up for myself. And I used to not do that. I just wish I had my own place because I miss my Chloe so much and because Lilly is outside right now and I hate it but there isn't much I can do about it. Tavia is restricted to my bedroom because dad doesn't want his leather furniture messed up. But I think by the end of March I will be in an apartment if not by April I have to save up the money for deposits and such before I can move. One of my friends wanted me to rent with her but I think what I really want is my own space so that the girls and I don't have to do anything unless we want to. And she has two kids and neither Lilly or Tavia like kids that much. Thank you all so much for your support
post #13 of 13
Good for you!! that everything gets straightened out soon!
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