|About the neutering: I heard that when a cat is neutered, it loses all of its personality and just sleeps all day. Right now Leo is playful most of the time and I don't want him to become a "vegetable". I believe he will go nuts if he had to go to the vet and plus he is very smart and knows that if he goes into a portable cage, something is wrong. He is just used to being home every day and I think he loves it because everyone here loves him. Every day I come home he greets me with a meow and falls to his side so I can rub his belly (he absolutely loves that).
No it doesn't take away their personality. It stops them from reproducing, which your cat doesn't need to do, and it stops dorky behavior. Also, shame on you for not completing his vaccine series. It would really suck if he got outside and got distemper. We just finished treating 3 cats for distemper. Two cats were from one home, one cat was from another, and all three of them racked up bills upward into $4,000 a piece. One of the cats has had 3 blood transfusions, his kidneys are going nuts, and we're still not sure if he'll be able to go home anytime soon.
Just because your cat gets neutered, he isn't going to become a vegetable. There are MANY tom cats running around my neighborhood and half of them are fat. My cats are both neutered and both are active and not overweight. Cats only get overweight if you over feed them. Neither of them just lay around the house all day, they are very busy boys.
Also if he goes nuts going to the vet, that is your fault because you should have taken him there for the rest of his vaccine series so he'd get used to it. Both of my cats will walk into the pet carrier by themselves, all I have to do is set it down and they walk in because they know it's going somewhere.
|About his urges: Can't he "relieve himself" by himself? I have seen him licking his private area and sometimes I even help him out with that (not what you think, I just rub his belly directly above his private area until some drops of clear liquid come out of his penis). BTW is a cat's sperm clear or white, like a human's? Can't he satisfy his urges by masturbating?
That is seriously just sick and wrong. NO he can't relieve himself. It's really not fair to make him have all of that sexual frustration, that is why he's starting to have a 'tude. The more he gets out also, the more likely he'll be in fights and you'll be spending $300 at the vet to repair abcesses and wounds. GET YOUR CAT NEUTERED. It costs $150 at the cheap places, takes 5 minutes, and then you won't be telling your friends about how you have to masturbate your cat. That's just wrong.