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Sam and Bailey have been spending a lot more time in the same room, mostly because she is in heat and follows him around wailing. He started licking her head a while ago, and then I noticed since she is in heat, and more "submissive", he is actually grooming her more. So I thought good, they are getting along.
Now I just saw them wrestle, I think. but I have never had two cats, so I don't know if this is OK. (and no, its not what you are thinking, Sam is fixed so by wrestling I mean wrestling).
Bailey crawled up right under his head, he started grooming her. Then he wrapped his front legs around her, sort of a wrestling grip, and she was fine. Then he started scratching at her with his back legs - the way he does with his toys. There was no growling or hissing, but I was afraid he was going to hurt her, so I yelled "stop", and they broke it up. Then I just wondered if this is normal play. If he were being too aggressive and going to hurt her, she would defend herself, woudldn't she? She certainly swatted at him with claws extended and hissed when he scared her at the beginning.
And now because I yelled, they are both avoiding me, even though I gave them nice fresh wet food. Just like little kids, hiding because Mom is mad at them.
Now I just saw them wrestle, I think. but I have never had two cats, so I don't know if this is OK. (and no, its not what you are thinking, Sam is fixed so by wrestling I mean wrestling).
Bailey crawled up right under his head, he started grooming her. Then he wrapped his front legs around her, sort of a wrestling grip, and she was fine. Then he started scratching at her with his back legs - the way he does with his toys. There was no growling or hissing, but I was afraid he was going to hurt her, so I yelled "stop", and they broke it up. Then I just wondered if this is normal play. If he were being too aggressive and going to hurt her, she would defend herself, woudldn't she? She certainly swatted at him with claws extended and hissed when he scared her at the beginning.
And now because I yelled, they are both avoiding me, even though I gave them nice fresh wet food. Just like little kids, hiding because Mom is mad at them.