So here's the deal. Here I am sat at home, on a Friday night, while all the girls from work are out on the town living it up. Apparently there is a works night out tonight - that not a single person mentioned to me until this morning. They've been planning for the last couple of weeks to go out, and somehow in the process (despite the fact that I see them every day and work my butt off for them) neglected to let me know. I only found out when one of my colleagues said "so are you coming out to eat with us tonight?".
Uhm..... you're going out?
Maybe it was a miscommunication.... my boss says she thought a colleague asked me, this particular colleague was under the impression that boss did. Colleague was going to call the restaurant to see if there was space and to book an extra seat, then she would call me to let me know when and where. Well it's now after 7pm, so I'm guessing that the restaurant is fully booked with no space at all for me to join them.
Either that, or someone's forgotten me again.
Either way, it sucks. I get to miss out on a good night out because they "forgot" to see if I would like to come too. It's not really a big deal, but there's a nagging feeling at the back of my head that what if it was a "we'd rather you weren't there". If that was the case surely it would be easier to just tell me straight up.
I feel like such a loose end
I could really have done with a nice evening out with people that I like very much and just chill out all together.
Uhm..... you're going out?
Maybe it was a miscommunication.... my boss says she thought a colleague asked me, this particular colleague was under the impression that boss did. Colleague was going to call the restaurant to see if there was space and to book an extra seat, then she would call me to let me know when and where. Well it's now after 7pm, so I'm guessing that the restaurant is fully booked with no space at all for me to join them.
Either way, it sucks. I get to miss out on a good night out because they "forgot" to see if I would like to come too. It's not really a big deal, but there's a nagging feeling at the back of my head that what if it was a "we'd rather you weren't there". If that was the case surely it would be easier to just tell me straight up.
I feel like such a loose end