Hi everyone, I've been desperately trying to find a site where I can get advice about my feline friend whose days are numbered with me! I'm at the end of my rope and ready to boot her out the door. Except I can't do that...I honestly believe she was sent to me by God at a time when I really needed her! And she needed me...wherever she came from, she was filthy and she has not been fixed yet. And very hungry!
Let me start at the beginning...I have difficulty typing and may not last too long, but here goes... A few years ago, I began to get ill and was unable to work eventually. At that time I had an older female cat living with me who had been homeless, but I started feeding her because she seemed hungry. Now mind you, I DID NOT like cats. I had never met one I liked or got along with and by the same token she DID NOT LIKE people. For the longest time she came, she ate, she left. And we got along perfectly!
There came a time she started to hang out a while after eating, then when she was ready to leave, she politely went to the door & waited for it to be opened to leave. She'd then disappear til the next day. Meanwhile I was becoming sicker and she took to hanging out in my bedroom. She still avoided people, but seemed to grow attached to me. My son left home, I was getting worse and had to go to the hospital...I callled 911 and this dear cat who hated people would not leave my side when all the 8 paramedics filled my house!
After that, our relationship changed and I changed her name from MsKittyPiz to Angel, because she was my Angel. I loved her dearly.
As a result of being unable to work I became homeless. She came with me on my journey through homelessness all the way from Fl to Az. We ended up on the street in Az and then I went into a shelter, but I couldn't find a place for Angel. I found a place she could hide and I went over to feed her everyday. Until one day I went over and she wasn't there anymore. My heart was broken...To this day my heart hurts whenever I think of her. I'm in tears as I write this.
I just pray she's safe and happy wherever she is. I've even thought of contacting an animal communicator to see if I can find out anything about her.
That was a year ago, and I'm in my own apartment now. A short time after I moved in here, I was being broken into around 2 am and after I chased the
SOB off,
while on the phone to the police dispatcher, I heard something at the back door and when I opened it, there stood the most beautiful white (albeit, filthy) cat I'd ever seen! She marched into my home as if to to say.."hi, I live here now. I'll let you know the rules as we get to know each other."
Well this little gorgeous, young, feline has won her way into my heart, but her favorite pastime is to attack me biting and scratching me until she draws blood! I've tried everything, but to no avail. She destroys everything and jumps all over the place like a whirling dervish on speed AND crack!
I miss Angel so much and had been praying about getting a cat when she (NO! BAD KITTY)
appeared. It's as if she was an answer to a prayer.
I would love to call her something other than "NO, BAD KITTY. THAT HURTS!!"
I hate yelling at her, I don't believe in declawing, or hitting or any violence, she's fearless and SHE WILL NOT LEAVE! Not that I want her to leave, I have grown very attached to her and am quite fond of the little, precious critter. She's made it quite clear that this is her house! She's very happy here!
I'm truly at my wit's end and I hope you can help me. I need to get her spayed, but funds are short at the present time. I wonder if that will help calm her a bit.
I know so little about cats that there was a time I thought my little one was very ill...she moaned and cried for hours and hours, she tossed and turned..just rolling back and forth. her behavoir was just pitifull. I was really scared and thought her life was in danger, so I took her to the pet Emergency Room and waited three hours to find out her diagnosis was...to quote the vet..."your cat is in heat"!!!!!
Well, I must quit now. Thanks in advance for any replies...ffrom what I've been reading there are a lot of people here who love cats, so I'm real hopeful about finding a solution.
I posted this in another forum yesterday, but thought this might be a more appropriate site.
scarecrow2007
Let me start at the beginning...I have difficulty typing and may not last too long, but here goes... A few years ago, I began to get ill and was unable to work eventually. At that time I had an older female cat living with me who had been homeless, but I started feeding her because she seemed hungry. Now mind you, I DID NOT like cats. I had never met one I liked or got along with and by the same token she DID NOT LIKE people. For the longest time she came, she ate, she left. And we got along perfectly!
There came a time she started to hang out a while after eating, then when she was ready to leave, she politely went to the door & waited for it to be opened to leave. She'd then disappear til the next day. Meanwhile I was becoming sicker and she took to hanging out in my bedroom. She still avoided people, but seemed to grow attached to me. My son left home, I was getting worse and had to go to the hospital...I callled 911 and this dear cat who hated people would not leave my side when all the 8 paramedics filled my house!
After that, our relationship changed and I changed her name from MsKittyPiz to Angel, because she was my Angel. I loved her dearly.
As a result of being unable to work I became homeless. She came with me on my journey through homelessness all the way from Fl to Az. We ended up on the street in Az and then I went into a shelter, but I couldn't find a place for Angel. I found a place she could hide and I went over to feed her everyday. Until one day I went over and she wasn't there anymore. My heart was broken...To this day my heart hurts whenever I think of her. I'm in tears as I write this.
That was a year ago, and I'm in my own apartment now. A short time after I moved in here, I was being broken into around 2 am and after I chased the
SOB off,
Well this little gorgeous, young, feline has won her way into my heart, but her favorite pastime is to attack me biting and scratching me until she draws blood! I've tried everything, but to no avail. She destroys everything and jumps all over the place like a whirling dervish on speed AND crack!
I miss Angel so much and had been praying about getting a cat when she (NO! BAD KITTY)
I would love to call her something other than "NO, BAD KITTY. THAT HURTS!!"
I hate yelling at her, I don't believe in declawing, or hitting or any violence, she's fearless and SHE WILL NOT LEAVE! Not that I want her to leave, I have grown very attached to her and am quite fond of the little, precious critter. She's made it quite clear that this is her house! She's very happy here!
I'm truly at my wit's end and I hope you can help me. I need to get her spayed, but funds are short at the present time. I wonder if that will help calm her a bit.
I know so little about cats that there was a time I thought my little one was very ill...she moaned and cried for hours and hours, she tossed and turned..just rolling back and forth. her behavoir was just pitifull. I was really scared and thought her life was in danger, so I took her to the pet Emergency Room and waited three hours to find out her diagnosis was...to quote the vet..."your cat is in heat"!!!!!
Well, I must quit now. Thanks in advance for any replies...ffrom what I've been reading there are a lot of people here who love cats, so I'm real hopeful about finding a solution.
I posted this in another forum yesterday, but thought this might be a more appropriate site.
scarecrow2007