I wanna look like the "Swedish Bikini Team" (as I call them) in the Santa hats, in the lower-left-hand corner of the "Why we do this" part of the website.
Any of them will do...
We women always are complaining about our appearance--admittedly, I'd rather hear someone do that, rather than brag, but still. I have a friend, in her 50's, who is tall and skinny. She has lost weight (though I think she didn't need to), and told her what a nice butt she has in pants, and what nice, slender legs she has. She thanked me, but then said, "But it's too [her butt] wide, don't you think?" (And no, it's NOT; it's actually rather small for a woman.)
Ladies, we're not supposed to look like men! We're supposed to have some padding, especially around the hips and rear!