Hello everybody! I am new to this forum and excited about having a kitten/cat support group!
I have 2 5 month old kittens, both males from the same litter (Sammy and Pippen).
My issue is with Pippen. From the start he had litterbox issues (he was peeing outside the box, under the bed, etc.). I took him to the vet and they were treated for fleas and worms and the problem stopped.
That started my frustration with him though.
He is a very lovable kitten, don't get me wrong. But he is difficult to bathe/give medicine to. His brother is not. I know I should not compare them, but I do!
The worst of it is that he is not apt to clean his backside and runs around smelling like poop. I've been wiping for him, trying to stimulate him to do it, but it doesn't seem to work. The vets say some cats are just poor groomers.
And then, the top of the mountain of frustration is his habit of "milking" his brother!
He'll do it until Sammy is completely soaked with his saliva and Pippen's nose changes color from being wet. It drives me crazy!! I am trying, praying, talking about it with others, to try and let it go and let him do it. If Sammy (his bro) wants him to stop, then he'll stop him. Otherwise, I should just ignore it, right? But it drives me completely mad! It gets right under my skin. Why does he do this? Why does it bother me so?
Right now he is sleeping on my lap like the sweet kitty he is.
My issue is that these behaviors of his and my reaction to them are driving me to be angry quite often with him and punishing him for other, less important things. Things that if Sammy did, would not bother me. It is the build up of my feelings towards all these other behaviors that causes me to want to punish him or be mean to him.
If anyone has experience, suggestions, encouragement, please do share!! I hope to get through this and have a healthy relationship with both of the kittens.
Thanks
I have 2 5 month old kittens, both males from the same litter (Sammy and Pippen).
My issue is with Pippen. From the start he had litterbox issues (he was peeing outside the box, under the bed, etc.). I took him to the vet and they were treated for fleas and worms and the problem stopped.
That started my frustration with him though.
He is a very lovable kitten, don't get me wrong. But he is difficult to bathe/give medicine to. His brother is not. I know I should not compare them, but I do!
The worst of it is that he is not apt to clean his backside and runs around smelling like poop. I've been wiping for him, trying to stimulate him to do it, but it doesn't seem to work. The vets say some cats are just poor groomers.
And then, the top of the mountain of frustration is his habit of "milking" his brother!
Right now he is sleeping on my lap like the sweet kitty he is.
My issue is that these behaviors of his and my reaction to them are driving me to be angry quite often with him and punishing him for other, less important things. Things that if Sammy did, would not bother me. It is the build up of my feelings towards all these other behaviors that causes me to want to punish him or be mean to him.
If anyone has experience, suggestions, encouragement, please do share!! I hope to get through this and have a healthy relationship with both of the kittens.
Thanks