Hi all,
Well, I did go back to Michigan, but only spent monday afternoon with my family. I'm still just so hurt by the gossip they're spreading around my back (see these threads: http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=151790 &
http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=151901).
However I didn't want to be mean and nasty so I got a little tipsy just to show some smile. B went to the mall for the day leaving only me and my family.
I email everyone tonight saying that I'm not leaving the family, but I just need a month or two of basically "ignoring" them to still call them family. I know they care about me, but they also need to realize that I'm 30 and am an adult.
I haven't uninvited anyone to the wedding either (believe me it was truly on the tip of my tongue), however my sister is a bridesmaid and I told her that if she really thinks that B is that horrible then she doesn't have to be one.
Ugh...it sucks having to stand up to your family and verbally beat into them that you're happy.
Well, I did go back to Michigan, but only spent monday afternoon with my family. I'm still just so hurt by the gossip they're spreading around my back (see these threads: http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=151790 &
http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=151901).
However I didn't want to be mean and nasty so I got a little tipsy just to show some smile. B went to the mall for the day leaving only me and my family.
I email everyone tonight saying that I'm not leaving the family, but I just need a month or two of basically "ignoring" them to still call them family. I know they care about me, but they also need to realize that I'm 30 and am an adult.
I haven't uninvited anyone to the wedding either (believe me it was truly on the tip of my tongue), however my sister is a bridesmaid and I told her that if she really thinks that B is that horrible then she doesn't have to be one.
Ugh...it sucks having to stand up to your family and verbally beat into them that you're happy.