So I'm super tired today. I'm at work & get a text from someone asking me to do something for them tonight. I say no I can't because I've got to work late & then go home and clean my appartment. The first response in "you see I have am sitting around eating bon-bons & getting a tan". Which I can't figure out if it was supposed to be funny or sarcastic, but since I'm at work and this person doesn't work I just don't find it funny. Then the next message asks me if I will do it tomorrow. The problem is I don't want to do it at all, but if I say that she will give me the guilt trip about how I'm the only person she can ask, and on and on. So how do you tell a person like that No. I've been firm before and was accused of being nasty. Maybe I was but that's how I react when someone doesn't listen to NO.