Oh hon, yes.
It was the first time in my whole life when I couldn't even be with my family during the gift exchanges. Not because I had to work or anything... just because a certain member of the family wouldn't come unless I went away.
But I just couldn't bear to miss it completely... so I went and parked my car far away and walked back and hid in a bedroom while they all had Christmas, and I sat on the floor by the bedroom door, listening.
I just can't believe how families treat each other sometimes. I'm so sorry you had a bad time of it, too.
Sorry for those who had a rough holiday.