I was thinking the exact same thing. I honestly would talk with the police and find out what you can about this guy. This sounds like something you hear on a tv movie, and usually that doesnt end well. there are places online you can check and see if E has ever been to prison and such. Florida may be a VINE state which means you would have to call an 800 number to check. Well i will check now and see, i have the links saved. http://www.dc.state.fl.us/InmateInfo/InmateInfoMenu.asp this website should help if he has ever been in prison or on prarole etc. but always check with the local police, its a matter of public record and they should be able to tell you within a few minutes if he has a dangerous past. If you need links for other state lookups let me know, i should have them saved. Having the evidence you do should be enough to get a protection order, but its only good if the police will enforce it, and only you know how effective your local police are. I would honestly look into things before you decide to take any drastic steps.Originally Posted by CarolPetunia
You can't just ignore him. He wants your attention, and ignoring him might make him decide to do something drastic to get it.
The first thing I would do is check with the police to find out whether E has a criminal record. If he does, you'll want to ask the police to advise you on how to handle all this.
But if he doesn't have any history of violence, then I think you and Mike might want to talk to him together, quietly and informally, right there at the break table at work. You could tell E that you're flattered, but you just don't feel the same way toward him. You could say that you and Mike have talked about it, and "we" really want to go back to the way things were when you all got along together. (Don't emphasize how committed you are to Mike -- if he's really crazy, that might make him think of doing Mike in!)
Be careful!