I was free feeding dry for a long time, but a few of the kitties were eating too much. So now I'm feeding measured amounts of dry twice a day, plus wet a couple times a week. But feeding time is not fun for me at all. I have a paper plate for each kitty and I measure the food out and put it on the plate. Then I set the plates down one at a time and rush around trying to get the right cat to the right plate. Of course, they all swarm over whichever plate they can get to first. Is there a way to teach them to wait their turn for their plate to be set down? With 13 cats I realize that's probably impossible, but I figure it's worth asking!