DH and I started trimming the tree this week, and his idea and my idea are completely different. This is the first real Christmas since we got married and are in our own house. Also the first real Christmas since my mom died, and I unpacked all of the family ornaments...and each has a story. This is the one my great-grandmother gave to me off her tree when I was around 4 because I fell in love with it; this one used to always be on Grandma's tree; this one was made by my Great Grandfather (who I never met) during WW2 and was a gift to my mom; this ugly thing was brought over from Ireland when my dad's Great Grandparents immagrated....that kind of thing.
DH's idea of decorating is put the lights on, throw some balls on and call it a day. Not that he didn't care about the stories behind them, but he just wanted to get it done and have it be over with. And, to me that isn't Christmas. I NEED to go through the stories that I remember.
DH's family didn't really have any traditions for inside decorations, their's were all outside. We're using an angel tree topper that came from his family and I thought that would be nice. But, it means nothing to him. He says he doesn't even remember it (and she is beautiful!!).
I guess I'm just extra emotional because of going through all the Christmas stuff. Sometimes I think it would just be easier if we started from scratch and got all new ornaments just for us, but then I think that defeats the whole purpose.
Does anyone else shed a few tears at Christmas time?
DH's idea of decorating is put the lights on, throw some balls on and call it a day. Not that he didn't care about the stories behind them, but he just wanted to get it done and have it be over with. And, to me that isn't Christmas. I NEED to go through the stories that I remember.
DH's family didn't really have any traditions for inside decorations, their's were all outside. We're using an angel tree topper that came from his family and I thought that would be nice. But, it means nothing to him. He says he doesn't even remember it (and she is beautiful!!).
I guess I'm just extra emotional because of going through all the Christmas stuff. Sometimes I think it would just be easier if we started from scratch and got all new ornaments just for us, but then I think that defeats the whole purpose.
Does anyone else shed a few tears at Christmas time?