I have a sister that is about 2 years younger than me with 2 children that I adore, but here's the problem-- my sister is psycho! I work night and the other day, she decided to call me at noon. She does this crap all of the time. I did not answer the phone at that time and called her back from my cell phone. I was a little (ok, maybe really irritated) annoyed and told her that she needed to tell me what she wanted because I couldn't understand her message. She then got nasty with me and told me to call her when I was in a better mood. That's fine. After I got off of the cell phone with her, she called and left a message on my home phone. In this message, she told me that she was sorry I hated her family and I was such a bigshot now that I was a nurse. What!? Yes, I was annoyed that she called me, but it had nothing to do with being a nurse, it was because she called me at what is my midnight (since I go to bed at 8 or 9 in the morning I consider noon my midnight). Where did she get I hate her family? They are my family too!!! She does this frequently and I am not sure how to handle it. I am thinking that I am just going to distance myself even more from her, but I hate to do that to my niece and nephew. To complicate things even worse, my niece has a birthday party next Saturday. I don't think that I am going to go now because of all of this, but it's just not fair to them. Sorry this is so long, but I just don't know what to do with my "baby" sister! While she was pregnant with my niece we didn't speak for several months because of J doing this crap! I am just sick of dealing with this! What do you guys think?
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12/8/07 at 3:28pm